Too Sick
O.K. I know that I am not pregnant. Kandis is pregnant. I know that women go through a lot of changes during pregnancy. But what should the man do while his wife is going through the sick days. Morning sickness has reared its ugly head and it has taken over OUR lives.
Kandis is handling the sickness, dare I say, better than me at time. Each morning I hear my wife “yacking” in the bathroom. I must admit that it’s a little…for lack of better word…disturbing. What can I do? I can’t stop her from taking part in her daily “vomitfest”. I can only suggest that maybe; just maybe, her morning sickness is in her mind. I know it happens, but that doesn’t mean that I have to like it. To be honest I don’t like it at all.
To watch her on the couch being too sick to do anything is an experience for ME. I mean she is too sick to work, too sick for school, too sick for church service, too sick to eat (Since she gives back what she eats anyway) and too sick for my liking. But WE knew that this could happen. Morning sickness. And I thought that this only occurred at the beginning of the day and at the beginning of the pregnancy only. I guess I was wrong. Morning sickness can happen for the rest of the pregnancy, all day, every day.
I just hope that I don’t become too sick of Kandis being too sick because I don't think two sick being too sick will be too good.
Kandis is handling the sickness, dare I say, better than me at time. Each morning I hear my wife “yacking” in the bathroom. I must admit that it’s a little…for lack of better word…disturbing. What can I do? I can’t stop her from taking part in her daily “vomitfest”. I can only suggest that maybe; just maybe, her morning sickness is in her mind. I know it happens, but that doesn’t mean that I have to like it. To be honest I don’t like it at all.
To watch her on the couch being too sick to do anything is an experience for ME. I mean she is too sick to work, too sick for school, too sick for church service, too sick to eat (Since she gives back what she eats anyway) and too sick for my liking. But WE knew that this could happen. Morning sickness. And I thought that this only occurred at the beginning of the day and at the beginning of the pregnancy only. I guess I was wrong. Morning sickness can happen for the rest of the pregnancy, all day, every day.
I just hope that I don’t become too sick of Kandis being too sick because I don't think two sick being too sick will be too good.
1 Comments:
Grammy said, You have my grandchild living inside of you, you will get bigger.To us who are grateful for what you are doing for us say "you and your body are beautiful". Different parts of your body will change, that natural and some will never be the same again "smile" Soon you will look at this beautiful baby and say "look what you did to mama's body" and then you will smile within your self and say "it was worth it".
I finally read something that gave me personally great joy. I quote
"Kandis suggested that on those days I can call my parents and ask them if they "mind" babysitting for a few hours." I am looking forward to that day or we are looking forward to those hours, days, weeks or months.
We pray to always have yours and Kandis's back.
Love yall
grammy
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